A friend in need

I'm writing this article because I have a friend in the need to ward off the negative thoughts. It's an urgent need to be attended. I hope others who find themselves in the same boat may benefit from this.

Everyone (as long as you are human) made or will make bad decisions, bad calls that trigger a whole series of chained bad effects. If it's not bad enough, when we felt we made the wrong decision and unable to get over it, you can't think and act to resolve the mess we had made. Positive thinking people do not blame other people and themself, they think and act on it to control the situation. They bear the responsibility to resolve the issue. Because I know that we can get over it and make things better. Whatever happened already been done, it won't change the fact that it's done and over, it's just that how we can react and change the future.

Whatever happened to my kid (I refer my son falling down incident), I can put the blame to my maid for not looking after my child properly, but by blaming I can't solve the problem. What I was thinking is how to get him back to before the incident the shortest time possible and how to take care of him in less painful way. And besides I need her to take care of him. Indirectly she felt guilty for not taking care of my kid. She feels responsible and determine to help me because I did not put the blame on her... Things happened for a reason. My eldest son, was once broken his arm before, and from that time onward, he does not climb high because he learned a lesson, though it's painful and costly lesson, but the positive side of it, in his younger age, he can heal faster.

Positive thinking people save lifes, they don't panic, they think a way out, find a solution to it and everything will be taken care. It's a proven system, I tried it many times, but in life, certain challenges are tough and hard to keep the positive alive, but I will comeback to my own blog, and write it out, let others know, I know out there , they are many good peoples that will pray for us, will offer prayers for my kid to recover. These are the positive vibration that make us the mankind (no offence to ladies) unique and we will be triumphant no matter what challenges that will be thrown to us.

Next, I will be writing about something related to death, and if death is nothing to be scared off, why do we fear?