As promised, I will write about death. From the title, it sounds pretty negative. But what I about to tell you is by knowing the negative, you know how to cope with it, and you are better prepared for it. It's like knowing your enemy concept. The same thing applies. My definition of death used to be 'Sleeping Forever', everything is void, null, not existed, because if you are sleeping, the next morning you wake up, you feel like it's just awhile ago that you slept. Imagine if you do not wake up. You sleep forever, that is death.
Some people encountered the near death experience before. Their body is in coma but their soul is wandering.
Well, what I had experienced was something similar. After practicing the OBE (out of body experience) through meditation, the whole concept of death has changed. When the soul separated from the body, you encounter instant feeling of violent vibration and intense energy, just after, you feel light, there's no barrier. You will think to yourself what a wonderful feeling is this. You can go wherever you want, you can roam and travel to where your adventurous mind brings you. It's not an easy task to achieve it. Your mind has to be totally void, not even a sense of the breeze passing by. Your brain in a different brain wave, entering alpha phase and theta phase.. During this time, subconcious mind starts to do the magic. There are more to this (but not really relevant to what I try to say about positive). I do not want to touch the religious stuff here about where the spirit will go to after death.
What I'm trying to tell here is the positive aspect of death. There's really nothing to be scared or fear about death. When you know this, nothing in the world ever make you fear. There's no reason for feeling afraid of doing this and that. There's really no excuse.
I know a lot of people will disagree, but I just want to spread the positive energy so that everyday is a good day, and the world is a better place to live in.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Thursday, February 12, 2009
A friend in need
I'm writing this article because I have a friend in the need to ward off the negative thoughts. It's an urgent need to be attended. I hope others who find themselves in the same boat may benefit from this.
Everyone (as long as you are human) made or will make bad decisions, bad calls that trigger a whole series of chained bad effects. If it's not bad enough, when we felt we made the wrong decision and unable to get over it, you can't think and act to resolve the mess we had made. Positive thinking people do not blame other people and themself, they think and act on it to control the situation. They bear the responsibility to resolve the issue. Because I know that we can get over it and make things better. Whatever happened already been done, it won't change the fact that it's done and over, it's just that how we can react and change the future.
Whatever happened to my kid (I refer my son falling down incident), I can put the blame to my maid for not looking after my child properly, but by blaming I can't solve the problem. What I was thinking is how to get him back to before the incident the shortest time possible and how to take care of him in less painful way. And besides I need her to take care of him. Indirectly she felt guilty for not taking care of my kid. She feels responsible and determine to help me because I did not put the blame on her... Things happened for a reason. My eldest son, was once broken his arm before, and from that time onward, he does not climb high because he learned a lesson, though it's painful and costly lesson, but the positive side of it, in his younger age, he can heal faster.
Positive thinking people save lifes, they don't panic, they think a way out, find a solution to it and everything will be taken care. It's a proven system, I tried it many times, but in life, certain challenges are tough and hard to keep the positive alive, but I will comeback to my own blog, and write it out, let others know, I know out there , they are many good peoples that will pray for us, will offer prayers for my kid to recover. These are the positive vibration that make us the mankind (no offence to ladies) unique and we will be triumphant no matter what challenges that will be thrown to us.
Next, I will be writing about something related to death, and if death is nothing to be scared off, why do we fear?
Everyone (as long as you are human) made or will make bad decisions, bad calls that trigger a whole series of chained bad effects. If it's not bad enough, when we felt we made the wrong decision and unable to get over it, you can't think and act to resolve the mess we had made. Positive thinking people do not blame other people and themself, they think and act on it to control the situation. They bear the responsibility to resolve the issue. Because I know that we can get over it and make things better. Whatever happened already been done, it won't change the fact that it's done and over, it's just that how we can react and change the future.
Whatever happened to my kid (I refer my son falling down incident), I can put the blame to my maid for not looking after my child properly, but by blaming I can't solve the problem. What I was thinking is how to get him back to before the incident the shortest time possible and how to take care of him in less painful way. And besides I need her to take care of him. Indirectly she felt guilty for not taking care of my kid. She feels responsible and determine to help me because I did not put the blame on her... Things happened for a reason. My eldest son, was once broken his arm before, and from that time onward, he does not climb high because he learned a lesson, though it's painful and costly lesson, but the positive side of it, in his younger age, he can heal faster.
Positive thinking people save lifes, they don't panic, they think a way out, find a solution to it and everything will be taken care. It's a proven system, I tried it many times, but in life, certain challenges are tough and hard to keep the positive alive, but I will comeback to my own blog, and write it out, let others know, I know out there , they are many good peoples that will pray for us, will offer prayers for my kid to recover. These are the positive vibration that make us the mankind (no offence to ladies) unique and we will be triumphant no matter what challenges that will be thrown to us.
Next, I will be writing about something related to death, and if death is nothing to be scared off, why do we fear?
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
My Positive Thinking was challenged
What happened last week really challenged my belief in positive thinking. I was very upset and sad to learned about my son falling down and fracture his neck axis bone. He was hospitalized for 4 days and now he is back home for 2 months recovery. The toughest job now is for him to get into the life of having a halo fixed between the shoulder and the head. It's not easy, he was in discomfort. He got rashes all over his body as it's been many days since his last bath. Looking at him suffering is really draining my positive energy.
However, I can't afford to be weaken. I cannot let it affect me. He needs me, and I need to make him as comfortable as possible in his road to recovery. It's not an easy task, and I had my back strained last 2 months ago and I have to carry him around. Besides I need to get back to work after days of absence, and I got a helper to look after my son.
All I have to say is, without that positive energy, I would have broken and was unable to think and do things properly. Without it, I would not be able to lead my kid to recovery and not able to concentrate at my work.
A lot of prayers go into this period of tough time as the faith to stay positive is essential. I cannot break down. I must think positively and I wish for his speedy recovery.
*My son had learned an important lesson in life and at this young age, he will recover fast.
However, I can't afford to be weaken. I cannot let it affect me. He needs me, and I need to make him as comfortable as possible in his road to recovery. It's not an easy task, and I had my back strained last 2 months ago and I have to carry him around. Besides I need to get back to work after days of absence, and I got a helper to look after my son.
All I have to say is, without that positive energy, I would have broken and was unable to think and do things properly. Without it, I would not be able to lead my kid to recovery and not able to concentrate at my work.
A lot of prayers go into this period of tough time as the faith to stay positive is essential. I cannot break down. I must think positively and I wish for his speedy recovery.
*My son had learned an important lesson in life and at this young age, he will recover fast.
Sunday, February 1, 2009
The multiple effect
I can feel the multiple effect of the positive thinking instilled into my brain. I am now a member of Oracle Certified Associate, Oracle Certified Professional, SUN Certified System Administrator, and SUN Certified Network Administrator.
A year ago, I would not have think that I still have the courage to take exam again. I was so negative and was in my lazy mode for too long. I'm recharged and the positive vibration is so strong that I can move mountains.
I have posted numerous way to do it, so you can do it too in any exam or challenge that you will be facing. I have my titles hang in front of my working desk, motivating myself and charge myself with all the positive energy ready to do any battle.
Believe it that you can do it . You can even can do far better than me.
I had created a website for more helpful and interesting articles, from personal to my working experience. Hope it can help you. Please visit http://daniel-flc.110mb.com
A year ago, I would not have think that I still have the courage to take exam again. I was so negative and was in my lazy mode for too long. I'm recharged and the positive vibration is so strong that I can move mountains.
I have posted numerous way to do it, so you can do it too in any exam or challenge that you will be facing. I have my titles hang in front of my working desk, motivating myself and charge myself with all the positive energy ready to do any battle.
Believe it that you can do it . You can even can do far better than me.
I had created a website for more helpful and interesting articles, from personal to my working experience. Hope it can help you. Please visit http://daniel-flc.110mb.com
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